Relationship Over Money

I ALWAYS hated when distributors quit my team to join another company
IT HURTS...
I TOOK IT PERSONAL...
IT THREATENED MY INCOME...
IT THREATENED MY DREAMS...
IT THREATENED MY LEADERSHIP SKILLS...
IT THREATENED MY COMPANY...
I wanted to find anything to justify how wrong the other person was...
Most of the time it was all out of FEAR and SELFISHNESS looking at everything from my perspective...
Despite those feelings I went completely opposite of my initial reactions...
One of my favorite things to do was to HELP 🤝 those who left the organization for another Network Marketing company or even those who quit the industry...
I loved showing people I wasn't full of crap saying that I cared about them when they were part of the team but then only to tear them apart when they decide to leave somewhere else...
I know that sounds CRAZY
Of course I am competitive and had a wide range of emotions right when I found out a good friend was leaving the team. I wasn't excited they were leaving by any means but I was mature enough to know that the relationship is the most important aspect.
I figured either;
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1) They made the wrong decision by leaving
2) They made the right decision by leaving
But either way what does it matter. They left so why not stay friends (Not always possible but I'll always do my part. And yes sometimes YOU need to cut ties).
Our industry is one of the few industries where money 💸💸💸 is so closely connected to relationships. At times this can cloud our judgement and emotions. At times it can bring out the worst in us. If you can't stay friends (yes there are exceptions) with those who leave to other companies or industries you are a FAKE.
It was ALL just about the money...
Look at the very top industry leaders and see how close they are with those who have left their teams. If they aren't friends with the majority of people who have left their teams that says EVERYTHING about them...
Don't just tell people who you are...
SHOW THEM
When you have major challenges in life is when your true colors show.

Comments

  1. Thank you for enlightening me with this write up.
    Indeed people leave and whether for the better or worst its truely not ours to decide.
    #longrichovereverything

    GOD bless you Papa

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